Posted by Admin on Tuesday, August 30th, 2011 at 11:55 pm
I wanted to put as much distance between my ex boyfriend and myself
When relationships end badly, people sometimes have a tendency to move on, forget about the other person, and try to eliminate all evidence of that person from their lives. Most people have a breakup like this in their past, if not more than one. Even I myself have had one or two relationships leave my head spinning. When it happened to me, I wanted to put as much distance between my ex boyfriend and myself.
Now years have passed, and I wonder what ever happened to him. Time has healed the wounds of that breakup and I remember the good times, knowing I did have a good friend all those years ago. What’s he up to now? Does he have a wife and a family? Did he follow his dream to become an architect? How are his parents and siblings, people I grew to like during our relationship?
These questions are a little easier to answer with things like MySpace and Facebook, but they don’t always work. In fact, all a person needs to do to hide themselves on one of these social sites is either not sign up or hide their profile. And in my case the act of not finding my ex made me want to find them even more!
Now, granted, my search isn’t as dire as it could be. We don’t share belongings, children, property, or anything else. It’s been a very long time since our relationship ended and I’m really searching him out for my own curiosity. Some of my friends have had more serious situations where an ex skipped town leaving no information behind. Adult relationships like theirs tend to need more time to unravel. Sometimes you share responsibilities like rent payments, belongings or even kids. No matter the circumstances, finding an ex—be it a boyfriend/girlfriend, fiancé, spouse, or long-term partner—gets a lot easier thanks to background checking sites.
I’ve often recommended NetDetective.com to my friends in these situations. For just $2.95, you get unlimited access to background checks, marital or divorce records, and contact information like phone numbers and addresses. I was able to find my old boyfriend with an address search and now we correspond regularly.
For some of my friends, NetDetective did even more to give them peace of mind. Not only could they find their ex quickly and anonymously, but also they were able to gain the restitution they needed to get past the breakup and heal their wounds. For them, and for me, seeking out an ex with NetDetective.com was a positive experience.
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Request On Post Lost Friend Board.I have been looking,for My First-Real/Girl Friend.Her Name/Then,Was Wendy Scribner.And Lived,w/her Parents.& 2-Sister’s,& a Brother.In a Small town,In The United States.Charlotte,VT.Also Shes Age,38.Wendy Sweeny
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Hi Roger:
Please post this on the Lost Friends Board. Our volunteers will see it there and do their best to assist you.
Thanks,
Kim
Stephen j. Pfeifer
Hi Jeff:
Please post your request on Lost Friend Board. We need his full name, date of birth and last known location.
Our Volunteers will try to help you locate him.
Thanks,
Kim
Hi Debra:
Please post your request on Lost Friend Board. We need his full name, date of birth and last known location.
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Kim
Looking for Rita Turner,wife of Cpt.Neal M Turner.I met the Turner’s in Germany,Bad Kreuznach. I REALLY,would love to locate them.
Paul N Williams
Hi Paul:
Please post your request on the Lost Friends Board. Our volunteers will try to assist you if she lives in the US now. We are not able to assist with overseas locations.
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Kim
I am trying to find Cathy Filippone. Age 59. Cinnaminson, NJ High School Class of 1970. Douglass College Class of 1974.
Hi Don:
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Good luck!
Looking for my ex husband where he is living etc important. Name Roger L Baker
Hi Jan:
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I am looking for a lost friend I recently had a cell phone number and all my contacts got deleted his name is Phillip templeton he lives and works in Missouri but has an Iowa cell phone number. Please help me relocate him
Hi Margaret:
Please post his full name, date of birth or age and last known location on the Lost Friends Board. Our volunteers will try to locate him for you.
Good luck!
I am looking for my ex-boyfriend, trying to find out were he is a contact number, employment. I would like to no how he is doing. thank you for your help in this matter.
Hi Peggy:
Please post his full name, date of birth or age and last known location on the Lost Friends Board. Our volunteers will try to locate him for you.
Good luck!
Hello, I was married to this man for 24 years of my life: he handed me a paper to sign for divorce, but I didn’t sign it,and now my his own son told me he eloped and married in las vegas , I need find him, he owe ‘s me spouse support, please help me , thank you
Hi Nellie:
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Lyndon Errol Joseph Florida
Hi Edra:
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I AM TRYING TO FIND MY EX GIRLFRIENDS ELIZABETH TORRES AND SANDY BAKER
Hi Kevin:
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Good luck!