Online DATING Blueprint
Posted by Belle
Updated: March 7th, 2010
My husband and I met online through one of the popular social networking sites, Myspace. Having been single for a while and tired of the bar scene, I decided to give online dating a try per my friend’s suggestion.
The idea of meeting people online seemed so appealing because you can check out a candidate’s likes and dislikes, religion, lifestyle, and LOOKS prior to actually meeting them. The problem however, lies in the fact that online people can be whoever they want to be. THAT is scary!
Give Just a Little
My best advice to all prospective online daters is to take your time and not to give too much info about yourself too quick. Predators are looking online more than any other place, so be smart about how you go about entering personal information, photos and so on.
Once my husband and I exchanged a few messages via the dating service, I decided to give him my email address. He emailed me from his home account, which contained his full name in it. This was a good sign.
I Googled Him (duh!)
Since I really liked him, I decided to “google him.” But this turned out to be a dead end as he is an accountant not a rock star! I found nothing that matched what he was telling me about his life.
I had heard horrible stories of people online lying about their job, married guys looking for easy dates, and those are surely not the worst things I can imagine!
Finally, I went into a couple of background records sites to see if I could at least check that the guy was real. I found a few sites and finally picked the one that had the most value for me (largest, most up to date database). But be careful of scams!!!
So if you are out and about and looking for your man or woman, you can check out all your candidates for a minimum fee.
Summing It All Up
As it turns out, the man of my dreams was indeed who he claimed he was and over two years later we are happily married with the cutest baby boy!
I support online dating 100%. But be safe. Be smart! And KNOW your candidate!


What can I do? I’ve been swindled by a man met on Match to the tune of $3,000.
I have no money left. How do I search records?No one will help.
Hey! i am 19 year old girl & i recently met a guy on facebook. he seem’s like a decent guy, & we’ve been talking on the phone. i’m from Missouri & he lives in Kentucky but he want;t to visit soon. Should i do a background check or something just to be safe. I know it’s scary these days with meeting people you don’t know. So i’m just curious as to what to do & what website to use?! Please help.. Thank you:]
What information do you need upfront to begin a thorough background check of someone overseas?
This involves on-line dating of my sister in Florida and someone in England