Posted by Admin on Tuesday, August 30th, 2011 at 11:22 pm
Trust should be the foundation of any solid relationship, but sometimes a boyfriend or girlfriend can’t be totally honest about their past. When you suspect something’s being hidden from you, you may find yourself badgering your significant other for details or snooping through their personal things for answers. This isn’t trust and it can have a bad effect on your relationship in the end.
If you find yourself in that situation, as a close friend of mine did not so long ago, what can you do? It’s human nature to want to believe the person we love is totally honest, but secrets hidden for too long can hurt more in the long run if we allow them to continue. My friend, who we’ll call Sally, found herself head over heels for a man who refused to answer questions about his past and often disappeared for days without calling or checking in. She wanted to trust him, that he was away on business, but her gut told her there was something or someone else.
Sally came to me, knowing that I’d done personal background checks before for my line of work. I told her about a service I’d often used called NetDetective.com and helped her set up her account. For just $2.95, Sally was given a three-year membership with unlimited background checks. She was able to search public records, marital records, and much more. Together, we set about uncovering the truth about her boyfriend, hoping we’d find no secrets at all.
I’m sad to say this isn’t a happy-ending kind of story, but Sally was truly glad to find out the real story about her boyfriend’s odd behavior. Within moments of conducting our search with Net Detective, we found everything we needed to know. Not only was he married (a marital status search uncovered an active marriage certificate in another state), but he’d also been divorced once before! Sally immediately saw that she was in line to become his next wife, since divorce papers had been filed against her boyfriend’s current wife.
She was outraged, but as I said, so happy to know that her suspicions weren’t ridiculous. With this information, she was able to make an informed decision about her future with her boyfriend. He didn’t know she’d conducted the search, because NetDetective.com protects your identity with anonymous searches, but she told him the truth anyway.
While relationships need trust to survive, blind trust isn’t always the best policy. Sally did what she needed to do to gain peace of mind about her relationship. It didn’t work out for them in the end, but she had a clear conscience. Now, she recommends the service to any of her friends or co-workers in similar situations. With the unlimited background records, you’ll never have to wonder if there are hidden secrets in your significant other’s life again. Get the answers you need, just as Sally did to make sure your boyfriend, girlfriend or spouse is the one for you.
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Trying to find correct marriage info for Waren Tucker/Margaret Harris either 4/26/1939 or 4/12/1942
Hi Toni:
You can locate the county courthouse contact details through Net Detective:
https://www.netdetective.net/
Kim
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Hi Carolyn:
Please post your requesti on the Lost Friends Board. Our volunteers will try to help you. We need her age or date of birth and last known location.
Kim
i would like to know if Catheryn Alvarez its divorce already?
Hi Isma:
We would suggest that you run a background check.
https://orders3.netdetective.net/ndps10/order.php
Warm regards,
Kim
where and when my wife has been married her name is robin paulette fulton from 1420 dimmsville rd millerstown pa
Hi Matthew:
We’d would suggest running a background check to discover this information.
https://www.netdetective.net/
Happy Holidays,
Kim
i have merrige from 1 july & i have want my back date certificate . if you providate please sand your currently contect no & add. in mail & your chares.
Hi Rajeev:
We are not able to obtain marriage certificates for our readers. I see that you are not located in the USA. Net Detective can only provide court locations in the USA.
We suggest you contact the local government offices to inquire on how to obtain the documents you need.
Kim
Hi I just broke up with my boyfriend but if I plan on getting back together in the future I need to know will he be truthful
Hi Antoinette:
A background check will tell you if he has any secrets such as previous marriages, current marriage, etc.
https://www.netdetective.com/
Kim
Kim, The site said they will withdrawl $29.00 per month from the credit card. Seems like a monthly rate Could you please clarify it? Thanks
Hi Robert:
As the Net Detective website states: You will receive 3 FULL YEARS of unlimited searches for a one-time only fee of $29.95. This is for the basic service.
Please review the Terms and Conditions which will clarify this is a one-time fee:
http://support.netdetective.net/index.php?page=terms
Now if you are looking at the Net Detective Premium Services, that service is a monthly fee.
Best wishes!
I just started going out with this guy and would just like to know if he’s been or is married farel moscadin
Hi Nikki:
We recommend Net Detective. For $29.95 for a 3-year membership you will have unlimited access to records.
https://www.netdetective.com/
Best wishes!
i would like to know if my husband is cheeting on me
Hi Kristine:
There are things you can do to check up on him such as checking his cell phone bills for numbers that are called repeatedly. Or checking credit card statements for unusual transactions such as hotels, gifts, restaurants, etc. that you cannot explain.
Best of luck to you!
i would like to know if my now boyfriend has or is married
Hi Reone:
You need to run a background check on him. We recommend:
https://orders3.netdetective.net/ndps10/order.php